Are you happy in your relationships? Does the partner that you have now fulfill all your desires? Are there things about your partner that you would like to change? For most people, there are at least a half-dozen things they would like to change about the partner that they are in a relationship with. Many others are living without a relationship and would like to create one. If you fall into either of these categories, then I have a solution for you. Whatever it is that you want out of a relationship, the Keys To Power can give you the Keys to creating the ideal relationship. In this article, I will describe how the Keys To Power system can be applied to this goal.
If you are at all familiar with the Keys To Power system, then you will know that we always start out with the basics that should be obvious to everyone, yet are missed by most. We will follow that same pattern here as well. Before you can get everything you ever wanted out of a relationship, you first have to understand the psychological dynamics that exists within any healthy relationship.
The first dynamic that must be understood is that no-one wants to be in a relationship that isn’t any fun, or isn’t exciting in some way. What this means to you is that if you want to get more out of a relationship, you must be active in creating fun and excitement. Does your life consist of going to work, going home, going shopping and back home again? Do you sit at home watching TV every evening, rarely going out and doing things just for the fun of it? If so, this will repel anyone you may want to have a relationship with.
Another dynamic that works every time is this: If you want people to be interested in you, be interested in them first. Dale Carnegie writes about this in his timeless classic “How To Win Friends and Influence People”. If you haven’t read that book, do it soon. It may sound like a lot of work, or even sucking up, but it works. Any time you show genuine interest in what another person is interested in, they look upon you with greater interest.
Here’s something else to think about: Everyone wants acceptance and approval. These are more things written about by Dale Carnegie. Let’s say that there is someone in particular that you have your eye on. Ask that person questions (not intrusive questions, but friendly questions) about the things they do. Ask about how they got started with their hobby. Ask what they like about this or that. Ask questions that direct them to think about pleasant things. As they start feeling warm and fuzzy, you can mention something about yourself that relates to what you’ve been talking about. The feelings will become associated with you in their mind.
One more basic dynamic to think about. Everyone like people who are confident in themselves. You have to present yourself as if there is nothing that can upset you or take you by surprise. This is one of the key principles used by the famous pick-up artists, as well as the others I’ve mentioned. If you have trouble feeling confident in yourself, then there are a few things you can do to improve your self-confidence.
Improving your self-confidence is most effective when you work on developing a usable skill. In my personal case, I had trouble with self-confidence until I learned the skill of photography. When I learned how to make good portraits that people liked and wanted to buy, then my confidence went up considerably! My confidence transferred to the area of relationships when I learned and practiced the principles that I am giving you now.
The other major way of increasing confidence is through suggestion, affirmations, and self-hypnosis. There are many recordings on the market that will guide you through a successful self-hypnotic session. The ones that I recommend come from a website called Insight Audio. (Click Here to visit them now.) Affirmations that you could use would be similar to “People like me, they enjoy my company.” “I am an attractive person.” “I present myself to others in a way that intrigues them, they find me fascinating and want to know more about me.” “Any mistakes that I may make are quickly forgiven.” I think you get the idea.
Okay, so now we’ve covered the basics. How can we go further? In the Keys To Power system, there are actually a couple of things we can do to tip the scales in our favor. First of all, we can use techniques from a field called NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). These techniques are called pacing and leading. When talking to the person you want to build a relationship with (and this includes the person you’re already in a relationship with if that’s who you’re talking to), say a few obviously true statements, things that the person you’re with would readily agree with. Then follow those statements immediately with a statement that suggests what you want them to believe, such as the two of you are meant to be together, or that being with you will be the most enjoyable experience they will ever have. This will make the last statement seem more true to the person you’re talking to. There is some very good material available on the Internet describing how to use NLP for relationship building. (Click Here to learn more.)
The last Key to building a quality relationship is the one that using Universal Power to aid you. When you tap into the Power of the Universe and collect that Power within yourself, you become a more attractive person, and you will get more attention if that is what you want. You can also direct that Power to send subliminal messages to the person you are wanting to attract that will cause them to come to you.
And of course, if you don’t have anyone in particular that you are wanting to attract, but are wanting to attract someone who will fulfill all of your desires, then there are Keys to use that will do just that. This is something that can be done even if you’re in a relationship, but you want Power to remake the person you’re with into your dream lover. With this Key, you simply create an image of the person you want, daydream about being with that person, and direct Power to create this image in reality.